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Saying “time for the reckoning” when closing out a bar tab

stealing this from somebody I heard say it at a hotel bar last year

@ttwardz

Feb 20, 2024

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a single drink at the bar on the way home

Learn to do this it’s a great life skill

@snapbracelets

Jan 26, 2024

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Lounging at bars

I think when I was a kid I consumed too much American sitcom and got indoctrinated into thinking that drinking alcohol and shooting shit at the bar is the coolest thing ever. Like it can be if you have a healthy group of friends that are good chatter but lately it seems like that’s not the case. I miss hanging out.

@nyuyen

Sep 19, 2024

Top Recs from @divorce

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Giving your projects an expiration date

this is a rule i like to employ for myself, as a chronic procrastinator, mostly in regards to my knitting but also for many other things in life: job applications, finishing a book, framing something, etc. These things become big projects in our mind, in need of completion, usually making them into these large and daunting monsters! The shame and guilt we put our ourselves and our procrastinations is so toxic and unhelpful, so instead of having these things sitting around reminding us of our inability to complete them, just get rid of it entirely. Put the project away, completely out of sight, throw our the little craft, put the book on the bookshelf. these time limits are not meant to apply pressure or increase urgency but like an expiration date, like closing all your tabs on your computer but IRL. If i’ve had a project sitting around unfinished for more than a couple months, a year, etc. no matter how much I like it and know i could finish it, i take it apart, throw it out, whatever. if it is meant to be you can always start it again, from a place of mental clarity and renewed enthusiasm! Don’t add it to your physical and mental load, just get rid of it 💖

@divorce

Mar 23, 2024

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Divorce

When i was a freshman in college and everyone was still on facebook my new friend pointed out that my relationship status on there said divorced… something i must have done when i was 14 and thought it was so funny. so i am divorce

@divorce

Apr 4, 2024

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Taking notes while learning something new

I’m trying out natural dyes and its so much fun. Taking very meticulous notes on my processes and results :) a good habit i’ve developed through glaze testing for ceramics that i am now applying to everything i do research/testing with. feeling like a little diy chemist

@divorce

Apr 3, 2024