I have a hard time relating to people, or having things in common with others. And I say that with no snobbiness or thinking I'm better than others. It just seems like people are too busy working to hang out, or the only thing they want to do is go out drinking when they can hang out. Or when I ask people to hang out, they seems to want me to plan absolutely everything, which makes me feel like they're not actually interested, so I don't want to hang anymore. How do I find good friends?