Workshopping my list. Share urs??? ~~~~~ Ins and Outs 2025 In: + luigi + vibram five fingers + martinis (with a twist) + long phone calls w your friends + tubular steel + “notify anyway” + blink 182 + calling strangers and people in positions of authority “baby” + unethical monogamy + big feelings + heelies + niche tartans + shared notes app notes w friends + a casual cigarette + saunas + midweek karaoke  + rats, mice, rodent epistemologies  + women’s sports Out: + plants  + ai, but also whining about ai + critiquing writing as “too jargony” + being aggrieved in general  + goodreads challenges  + conflating accessibility with catering to the lowest common denominator  + ins and outs lists —but you know what do what you love ok!!!! + miracles of science  + electric scooters + referring to knitting and crocheting as “fiber arts” + ethical nonmonogamy  + “every year Julia says tabis are out and still wears them” - grace kuipers + airing your politics in your online dating profile + jia tolentino thought pieces, sorry jia :/ + saying Zionism is “out” — it was never “in” + cowboy culture + Salomon xt-6s that have never once seen soil + grad school + men’s sports