Long story short whenever i get along with someone they tend to tell me that their first impression of me has nothing to do with how i really am. They tend to say that i give the vibe of someone arrogant, far from being humble, with condescending looks. However all i am is someone who doesn’t care about what others think, more than happy with my own company, don’t look for validation in any way, and never lower my standards nor disrespect my values. So is being called arrogant by people is in a way a self reflection of their own insecurities and maybe a low self esteem ?