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You want to know what I’m fucking with right now?? MYSELF! Nothing makes me feel more powerful than when I feel good about myself. I’m certainly no stranger to feeling down about myself or not believing in myself, but I can usually pull myself out of those slumps with a face of makeup and a great outfit. Put on those jeans!! That skirt!! Those shoes!! Whatever makes you feel hot as shit, feeling hot is one of the only things we have anymore! I feel hot in black tights and a black skirt! Throw it on, and own your socially-distanced gathering!!! YOU are smart, cool, funny, and stunning!! And make sure to tell your friends they’re hot too!
Mar 16, 2021
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i was having a really down week where i felt like i was just fucking up the lincoln logs left and right. against my desire to rot i decided to go to a show last night where i knew my friends would be. i don't know what i did to my hair but for some reason all of them kept separately saying that i not only looked hot but was getting noticeably hotter. instant 180 to my mood and mental health. i feel so strong now i could kill god with no remorse. yesterday was world mental health day and i saw and tried a lot of the things that were posted about how to take care of yourself and had no success, but nothing works half as well as being told you're hot. so if you have a friend who looks like they're down, tell them they're sexy, they probably really need to hear it.
Oct 11, 2024
feeling sexy gives me the power to walk through the world with confidence even though it feels like everything is falling apart like... at least my fit cute, body tea, face card accepted etc etc
Feb 15, 2025
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There’s this comedian on IG or Tiktok she was like “Just Be Hot“ and now I say it mentally lol when I feel the self-pity coming through
…it’s partly tongue in cheek, partly affirmation, partly ranting at the world 😂😂😂
Jul 29, 2024
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Ok, this is a more obscure rec but bear with me. I recently started spending weekend days strolling into a new used book store in the Lower East Side called Sweet Pickle Books. The store has become a comforting place to make a quick cheap purchase for me, and also my go-to store for presents. Every time I go in there I find myself picking up books with the coolest names or covers and just buying them hoping I’ll like them. I’m currently reading J.G. Ballard’s Super-Cannes which I probably would have never even known about had I not stumbled upon it and thought the cover looked cool. I suggest this method for branching out from your usual genres or authors.
Mar 16, 2021
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I like working out, but the hardest part for me is getting up to actually do it. I try to entice myself to rise to the challenge with nice workout clothing that I think looks cool and makes me feel hot. Of course, this method has to include my workout gear as well. I started working out at home during the pandemic doing a mix of various workout videos, with my fave being @isaacboots Instagram live workouts, which require wrist and ankle weights. I decided to splurge on these very chic weights from bala bangles, because like 50% of the enjoyment of working out for me is the post workout selfies. They also make sleek hand weights if you’re not an ankle weight person.
Mar 16, 2021
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Like all of the other things I’ve mentioned so far, I got into martinis for aesthetic purposes. I mean, is there another drink more chic and sexy than a martini? I don’t think so! I also hadn’t been a vodka drinker since my Sophomore year of college, drinking vodka crans at Lucy’s (IYKYK). It also makes me feel very cool and hot when I pull out my little martini shaker in my apartment to shake some up myself. I take mine extra dirty with olives and Kettle One vodka.
Mar 16, 2021