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my therapist has pointed out that i almost never “lead” in courtship and i should try being a closer for a goddamn change. and i must say… it’s fun. and it usually works as long as you’re not a fucking dweeb about it. so just let that stare linger a hair longer because you neeeever know.
Jan 31, 2023
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if you’ve worked customer service it’s real easy to just feel like an NPC. but honestly i love using that to practice some safe and respectful flirting with customers. there’s no harm in flashing a smile with some strong eye contact and telling them i’ll see them next time, it’s just good customer service.. unlesssss…
Jan 21, 2025
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Lock eyes with someone on the subway. But be quick! do your best to look a lil’ flustered …. and then return your gaze after a beat.
this is one of my fave lil’ subway moves!! makes u feel sooo cute and sweet. i think it really pushes the narrative to frame the other person. now they’re the super hot and powerful main character.
sometimes its nice to play a supporting role.
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Jan 28, 2024
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always turning heads with the charm is fun
Feb 1, 2024
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classic episodes run seven to eight minutes. perfect for ambient viewing while you’re making breakfast or winding down before bed. as a kid i would sit in front of the TV munching on an unpeeled carrot and FEEL like bugs.
Apr 21, 2024
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i’m getting old by m. night shyamalan because i’m collecting stuff like notepads from hotels now. but they really are a lovely little memento, and in this time-collapsed era it’s nice to look at stationery and think “oh right, i stayed at the ace hotel when my heater broke last winter.”
Jan 31, 2023
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there was this new york times story on a couple buying a fire island house and discovering 200 tapes of dj sets between 1979 and 1999, and a sound engineer has been digitizing them and more are still uploading. it’s a lovely time portal and does more to set a mood for me than any ambient pop usually can, plus it tickles my crown chakra or whatever to feel some sort of connection to generations past.
Jan 31, 2023