i recommend incorporating something a little bit unflattering into your look whether it be the fit/cut of a garment or an ugly shoe or something similar, for me its recently become bleaching my eyebrows, i do not have a good face for this at all (and i paint them in to look more "natural" for work) but i really like the intensity of the look. i feel like wearing something a little unflattering communicates like aesthetic agency or something and its subtly subversive... i hope that makes sense