the best community i have found is in the local music scene where i live. all of my friends are either in bands or are there to support their friends and their music. even if youโre not super into music, thereโs still so much community in going out to shows and events to meet people you might not have met otherwise. genuinely some of the most authentic connections and friendships i have are with people i met in at diy shows in backyards. itโs worth a shot to just go to a show alone and see who you meet!!