Literally just be like “hey can i have some attention pls”, it pretty much always works in my experience. We all need and desire attention to some degree, there’s no shame in it. And openly asking for it is better than trying to implicitly get it by acting out, because then if you DON’T get it, it‘s really easy to attach it to your value instead of the fact that you didn’t -really- communicate your wants and needs.
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