so much time before and after! like i'll never forget this one night i hooked up with someone and when we were done at like 4am or whatever they asked me if i wanted them to leave. i never heard anything so wild in my life (reasons including but not limited to cuddling is great and also it's 4am i wouldn't feel good about that anyway). i said hell naw stay as long as you like. and we watched flavor of love instead
who cares that we’re all going to be tired tomorrow? we’re making memories right now. i am a firm believer that if you can have a blast talking to your friends for 8 hours straight, there is absolutely no reason to cut it short for something as mundane as bedtime. middle of the night conversations go hard, everything is funny and vulnerable and precious and playful. tell me everything while we curl up on the couch or huddle on a stoop somewhere.
Sometimes you are out late and don’t want to stop hanging with your bestie and you literally know you are gonna text them “bagel?” In 5 hours when you wake up… just cut out the middle man. its normal and incredibly wholesome
i love to be with my pals and experience the phases of the evening— dinner, sweet treat, dancing, pizza, chatting, video games, about to crash. it feels so wonderful to experience the whole gambit and then part ways.
leaves you susceptible to dating someone for too long because they play a role rather than it being about who they are. if you go in open to every situation, it will play out as its supposed to naturally (sometimes with a little nudge)
go drink some right now
it’s good for your body and skin and has magical healing properties when consumed at the right times. currently it’s helping me beat a hangover