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I used to be a serious hater and socially anxious. Now I can smile at strangers or make friendly small talk in an elevator and i feel so much happier. Took me 33 years but new skill unlocked?
Feb 1, 2024
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It’s nice to remember that the world is brimming with kind people. I by no means have lengthy conversations with them, but even a joke or an observation to the store attendant makes me feel like I am the sort of person who is casual about things. It’s fun and reminds me to get outside my (sometimes claustrophobic) bubble.
Jan 15, 2025
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I’ve always had struggles starting/maintaining conversations, so when I was in college, I would find something to compliment a stranger on (typically a cashier or someone I had to talk to) because I remembered how good I felt when I unexpectedly got a compliment from someone. When I myself became a cashier at a coffee shop, it was a really nice way to make someone feel good if they looked bored or upset. It also helps with awkward silences. I still do it when I can or when the situation calls for it, and it’s so nice to see people react and smile.
Feb 24, 2025
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I usually get very shy and nervous to say hi to people I run into that I know. My go-to move is to ignore people and pretend I didn’t see them.
I just ran into people I went to college with and it was a little awkward. However I’m proud of myself for saying hello and being excited. I was happy to see them and I’m glad to see a positive change in myself and how I interact with people.
Dec 1, 2024
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Jan 9, 2025
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it's a small sketchbook with a survey of questions I ask everyone who comes over. Each person gets their own page to answer the questions and are required to draw a self portrait with it. People love doing it because everyone gets a spotlight moment, it generates conversation, and I get a fun memento
Feb 2, 2024
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I don’t care anymore how many people pass me on the road or about other people’s strava screenshots - I just enjoy being outside and listening to some tunes and moving around in the world
Jan 30, 2024