care is a lifelong activity you’ll probably have to do for the rest of your life - the fortunate part is the ability to assess and make choices on who’s thoughts you should care about and why
if there’s an important enough role in your life then you def will be caring for a bit but if it’s a random stranger/someone you met once who cares
Try talking to someone without “oh yeah, when something similar happened to me…” or “that reminds me of [me story]” Or “I totally understand because I…” - It’s hard, but worth trying
Lurking + Learning. Noticed I am posting every day. Not sure we all have enough cool recs to be posting constantly without trying too hard. Don’t want to turn this place into another “look at me!” platform. Here’s to the value of quiet lurking & learning
