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everyone does it a little bit. most people are self aware to the extent that they try to avoid it. the people who don't avoid it are, well, abrasive a lot of the time, but i'm jealous of their freewheeling nature. to act without consideration to others and follow the socializing id is a trait resisted by many; i believe accepting one's innate annoying features is part of accepting oneself as a whole.
my annoying traits include posting too many things at once on a website and interrupting conversations with weird timings.
Feb 2, 2024
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I feel like I’ve spent a lot of my life ridiculously concerned with being annoying, and I still felt unlikeable; now I’ve stopped caring as much, and it’s scary, but also I’m happy and I’m not hurting anyone !!! So be annoying !!! You’ll find your people who enjoy and love you !!! Fuck the rest !!!
Dec 23, 2024
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It’s too common to be comfortable in all situations these days. Nothing goes harder than a good awkward interaction between 2 people who don’t want anything to do with anyone.
Apr 23, 2024
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I'm always worried I'm not interesting enough. I haven't done enough, I don't know enough, to be funny or to be exciting company. I am not silly enough or energetic enough.
But I am also worried that I'm too much. Too demanding, too stubborn, too sarcastic. Too commanding, too talkative, too dismissive. I'm working on it but sometimes it feels that way.
I appreciate and like who I am and I am confident. But in those insecure moods it does feel like I'm wrong in all the ways possible, it's not usually one or the other.
Mar 1, 2025
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time frame's approximate buuuut you know it when you hear it. think "poker face". there is so much space and everything's so dry... there is no lushness... the drum samples are unbelievably flat... and yet! and yet! it works so well! the economy of production makes any pop singer's vocals soar even higher than they would otherwise, and really pares the machine of a pop song down to its bare necessities... which is why i think we got so many bangers in this period. there's a lot of good stuff to get into even if it's just for nostalgia
Feb 11, 2024
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im unemployed and in art school at 30. it's never too late to not do marketing
Feb 8, 2024
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tbf i'm still working on this but: many ppl have the tendency to like, put themselves out in the world with an attached asterisk like "oop! sorry i exist! oop! sorry if you don't like me, i'm working on being the universally beloved human object! oop!" and thusly pre-apologize for every mildly annoying or perceptually uncouth action they will ever take. none of that shit. assuming one is regular and not trying to like, destroy the lives of everyone around themselves, one does not need to constantly explain and apologize for their actions. trust people to tell you if you suck, because They Will.
same goes for art obvs. don't apologize just make it and if people think it sucks they'll tell you.
Feb 8, 2024