change your thought patterns. repeat a phrase to redirect my thoughts, mine is “it’s noT mine to carry”. that way I’m not obsessing over it in my mind, i’ve already given it up
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don’t let the actions of others you can’t control take more of you than they deserve to
a recommendation for myself tbh
Jan 31, 2024
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I’m trying to practice not being so insane all the time. trying to live in a world where I have a thought and then let it go into the void like a sweet butterfly that I’ve noticed and honored. This is hard and I hate it but i must believe it will pay off in time or what’s the point
May 21, 2024
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I have really delayed so much of my healing by clinging to certain people or ideas, forgetting that life doesn’t often turn out the way that you imagine. (It can be better than you imagine if you simply let it happen!!) I have been living my life in devotion to “what-ifs” and half baked desires instead of just enjoying who I am, what I have and what’s in front of me. No more of that!!! What good can come out of forcing it? I’m trying to go with the flow and give myself permission to change and accept the change around me and be happy.
Oct 24, 2024
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I’ve been dealing with a creative rut for a while as well. It’s easy to get stuck in a process of trying to put out work at a feverish pace, but that speed makes it difficult to catch the creative ideas that come along. i believe there’s a creative frequency with ideas on it we can all tap into, when you move too fast you can’t catch them and they turn into what i call “creative flybys”. it’s easy to feel like you’re stuck, but i encourage you to explore other interests, creative or not, and also to download the pdf of “the creative act” by Rick Rubin, it’s a book that’s really helped me. wishing you love in your journey tho. it’s tough but keep going, when you get out of this rut, what you come out with will be beyond your imagination
Feb 7, 2024
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as someone who struggles to tell if the feelings they feel for others are reciprocated, it would be nice to know for sure i was cared about. making it easier to unashamedly care in return
Feb 9, 2024
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putting chips on a sandwich just makes it so sexy
Feb 7, 2024