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Responding to messages instantly

As someone who has been a historically negligent telecommunicator, this habit is definitely one that has required some intention and tlc in developing, but boy has it been worth it! First and foremost, this is a bandwidth godsend. By responding to messages as soon as you get them, you fulfill your immediate duty and free up that sweet sweet real estate. But of course there are also many downstream benefits that I will cover in as soon as I qualify a bit and explain the practice. Qualifiers: Obviously dont stay glued to your device, or stop whatever you’re doing, or get into more involved discussion when it is not the time or place to do so. And also in dating I think there is a real value in the air that used to be so natural and implicit before texting. The Practice: Very simple. When an inbound comes in and you see it, simply take 5 seconds to 1 minute to read and respond to it. Most things I find can be answered with a yes, no, or maybe so. And if it can’t, a “can I call you later” or “good question 🤔” or “let me see” might do the trick. And finally, if none of these work go ahead and take your little time and respond later. Downstream benefits: People like it Things get sorted out faster Less falls through the cracks No apology texts or excuses less overthinking communications/more authenticity Obviously there is no right or wrong way. I have a friend that goes read receipts, reads stuff, then, if needed, takes his time to get back to you. And I actually find that nice to be on the receiving end of because it’s always intentional. But I’ve really enjoyed this way and practice and wanted to recommend it as it has added a lot of value in my life.

@nick3

Aug 14, 2024

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leaving texts on seen

You don’t have to reply to everyone all the time. Your time is valuable ⏳

@julio

Feb 14, 2024

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answering the phonee

Shoutout julialexie answering so quickly during my time of first world crisis. I’m bad at answering, must improve.

@chlonline

May 19, 2024

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empty morning streets on weekends

when the sun is starting to hit and everyone is still asleep, its very quaint and peaceful

@uydesai

Feb 10, 2024

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do not wait till midnight to fold laundry

I want to sleep but I have to fold all of this clothing on my bed

@uydesai

Feb 1, 2024

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look at people when walking

obviously not in a creepy way but once you start doing this you’ll actually recognize the same people if you’re in a walking neighborhood and it starts to really feel like a village! Love recognizing an old coworker, your local tailor, or just nodding at your barista on the street :)

@uydesai

Feb 7, 2024