i am a person that holds a very montone, strong, blunt tone.
i also know i am a very honest person
people take my words as a form of aggression, disagreement, and me saying i am right
unfortunately i don’t change for people (talking about changing my tone)
but i am willing to understand and hear both sides
i’ve gotten into ‘arguments’ with majority of anyone in my life
and i swear if people just listened to what i said and now how i sounded, i would be more ‘agreeable’
so when you’re chatting with your parents or someone you don’t know well, try to take regard for what words are coming out their mouths.
they may sound uninterested or a hater but their words may be actually redeeming