look at whatever you got and freeball something delicious,
or ask a friend to come over with other weird bits & bobs from their fridge,
hell, ask your date over and play the same game, impress them
i don't limit love to just a romantic partner. I have a queer platonic life partner (long word for my best friend) whom I love muchly. I have many people I love in different capacities, but no one in particular currently that I share a romantic love with!
I keep my heart open to allowing love to meet us where we're at, to which capacity it evolves to