when i find myself stuck in the mindset that people might be judging me, i really just need to remember that nobody actually gives a shit about what i do
like unless the shit youâre doing is really out of pocket itâs probable that nobody else is worried about what youâre doing or thinking. as long as you feel good with what youâre doing and how you treat people fuck em
this may seem like it makes life very lonely and boring (it does) but i like to think it makes me come across as mysterious and fascinating (it doesn't)
idk if this would actually be considered a âbitâ but before i realized i was a lesbian i used to do this thing on hinge where i would ask guys for their spotify username and then once they sent it iâd unmatch them almost immediately so that theyâd think their music taste was so foul it sent me running
