obviously everyone has said it already but it’s so freeing to just get rid of them. being a losergirl i wasn’t having much luck anyway so at first i thought nothing would change but i was wrong. i find that i don’t even think about romance or finding a partner much anymore; just focusing on fixing and bettering my life. focusing on strengthening my friendships, my goals and projects i’m working on satisfies me more then any romantic relationship will currently.
i have more thoughts but i’m bored of typing now