the older i get, the more i‘ve realized that it’s okay to GTFO of situations that aren’t serving you. i’m not saying run or quit as soon as something gets hard, because challenges are how we grow and change. i’m saying listen to your intuition, find and follow your north star. you will know when it’s time.
your workplace treating you badly or your job wearing you out? start looking for something else.
in a relationship that’s toxic or that you can’t sparkle and thrive inside of? advocate for yourself and get out.
your living situation bad for a myriad of reasons? start looking at your finances and figure out if you can move.
all of this is to say, it is your life! be an active participant in it. i’ve quit jobs, apps, relationships, apartments, vices, etc. there is no shame in leaving the party early.
