i make a lot of new friends just by being genuinely interested in what other people are hype about! if you’re out for drinks, learning someone’s go-to drink can open up a whole conversation / revelation about them to connect to. you can also plan activities that make those discussions more likely: go to a museum and plan to go to the exhibits that each person most wants to see, visit a farmers market or flea market to shop, etc. most people are happy to meet new people and want to have a good time, so good luck and have fun!
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ive been single for 5 years so when i moved, going out alone wasn’t really a new concept it was just the unfamiliar environment that was intimidating. so i just had to get over my fear of the literal unknown.
either way, concerts are the easiest place for me to make new connections cus i like to dance and i mean there’s already a solid topic of conversation to lead with (the artist you r there to see 🌚)
dive bars r easy too, i just have a drink at the bar, talk to whoever’s there, and go wherever the wind takes me.
i also just straight up asked my coworkers if anyone wanted to be friends and /or hangout. sometimes (in seattle at least) u just have to be straightforward
my old roommate liked going to queer nights and that’s how she met a few of her friends
my current roommate is into gaming so he goes to gaming meets & card game battles
and i have another friend who loves skating so she goes to skating events
i guess, meet new people thru ur hobbies 🧘🏽♀️
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don’t be afraid to ask :)
May 16, 2024
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It could be someone from work, or someone you met at a party, or someone you know from a place you go a lot — but making a connection and following up with them to hang out! I’ve been freaked of this before, but have tried to reach out to people more & most of the time it’s been a positive thing.
It’s helpful for me to find a common interest like if we talk about a movie that’s coming out or a hobby we both like, to invite them into that!
Mar 11, 2024
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If you're in your city for school or work, it's easy to get into conversation with someone. The good old water cooler talk can lead to friendships. If you're more introverted all i can say is try to step out of your comfort zone. Even if it's hard, a small thing can have huge effects.
Maybe if you have a specific hobby, like a sport, you could join a club or workshop. You'll definitely meet like minded people every where.
Oct 3, 2024
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we do, in fact, have McDonalds at home!!! low effort cooking, high degree of satisfaction ✨
Mar 21, 2024
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washing off the morning and arriving refreshed and relaxed into the afternoon? elite. better than a nap, opportunity to play mermaids in the middle of the day, so fresh and clean! top shelf.
Apr 2, 2024
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find your nearest local bookstore and check the events calendar - there are constantly book launches where the author will show up and read and sign books! events at some of the smaller shops will sometimes have food and drinks too! books are magic / the strand / astoria bookshop / etc.
Mar 24, 2024