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i think everybody hates small talk, but everybody is also very different from each other, I guess it’s a matter of being understanding with the person or people you’re talking to at the moment. But I do think that personal questions and talking about real life experiences is what gets conversations going, it’s also what makes you remember people and want to reconnect with them. when talking to somebody new there’s nothing better to a first impression than someone who engages and listens. We get what we give so might as well give as much as we can.
Apr 2, 2024
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dont just start talking for the sake of talking, instead find something you actually think is interesting about that person, give them the compliment/question and go from there.
be present, actually listen to what they’re saying instead of just being in your head thinking about what you’re gonna say next. you’ll be surprised how much people love to talk about themselves!
Jun 11, 2025
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I love asking questions! When I'm trying to get to know someone, I make an effort to be intentional in our conversations. I love getting to know someone and finding things we both relate to!! It gets hard when the conversation becomes one sided because I feel like I'm putting in effort that is not reciprocated... I love when people ask Me questions!! As long as the questions are not overstepping boundaries, I think it's important to put an effort into the relationships you're trying to cultivate :) 🛣️
Jun 25, 2025
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in the people you're talking to, goes a long way. People can hear that in the way we talk to them. And I like to think that the right people would also be interested in answering back.
Jun 11, 2025
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Just felt like it, I feel like pi fyi will always give me a certain nostalgia for early 2024. My life was changing for good 🙏
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