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only come if it’s intentionally + aware !

here’s my misc thoughts lol i’m no expert but this is from my POV as someone who’s lived here full time a bit and grew up visiting all the time. firstly, you’re def right that it is expensive — nearly impossible to relocate to if you don’t have a job secured and aren’t rich. even moreso if you have never visited or have only done one super tourist-y visit--it’s not just Times Square and Statue of Liberty (love her tho) rainbows and butterflies vibes lol. like i seriously do not recommend moving here if you haven’t been to other boroughs, and neighborhoods outside of Midtown, SoHo, FiDi, UES etc. i’ve never been to england so can’t speak to it bit you might find it helpful to look online for comparisons to cities you’ve spent more time in - london and other cities in europe perhaps. consider if NYC would be that much more exciting or “better” for you? also there’s a huge issue of influencers and people who wanna live here impulsively for fun that has driven up rent and driven out lifetime residents, esp working class folks and people of color. (lots of writing out there on the difference between moving to any city vs gentrifying one, and what one can do to not be complicit in the latter). and, my family is from here and i have always loved the city; i did get a job here after graduation but i really wouldn’t have moved here if i hadn’t. so definitely come here intentionally, and arrive with a willingness to engage with your community! sometimes new residents who aren’t as acquainted with the “real” new york and can’t afford apts in the more gentrified or historically wealthy areas (most of manhattan, some parts of brooklyn) have a misconception of the city, so they end up feeling awkward or “unsafe” where they live, and thus don’t give back to their neighborhood. it’s veryyy weird that some people move here only to go to work, eat out and party on the weekends. (not saying this is you ofc! but just a general note). the irony is that NYers get a bad rep for the mind your own business culture and realness--and yeah NYers aren’t “nice”, but people are kind. folks care about and actively help out their neighbors. i saw this in my own fam growing up! and as sinatra himself once said: “if i can make it here, i’ll make it anywhere.” it is a tough place to “make it” for people without roots. but i’d never deny that new york, for many of us, lives up to its reputation as the so-called greatest city in the world ;)

@marxinista

Aug 30, 2024

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Move to new york if / when you’re ready

(grew up in astoria, did school in jersey, currently in seattle) if you’re serious about being an entertainer / artist i do think you should probably eventually end up in new york or la (at some point, not necessarily forever) new york is just unforgiving; it’s cold and wet, half your paycheck is going to your landlord, and even though there’s an active and vibrant art scene there’s zero handholding if you’re just getting started - “getting started” in nyc means you’ve been at it for 5+ years and are finally getting your flowers. it’s harder to build community bc it’s kind of like going to la and introducing yourself by going “i moved here bc i wanna be famous!” yeah, you and everyone else here - too many people have that in common for it to be something to meaningfully connect on, there has to be something more substantive there moving to seattle put this in perspective for me (and i’m sure I’ll move back to new york bc it’s home for me, but) the smaller the scene, the more excited they’ll be for newcomers, the more support you’ll get on your first project, booking your first gig, etc. if it’s in the cards for you to move to the city, you will, and it’ll be incredible - if you’re not at that point yet you’re living in the most expensive city in the world to be proximal to other artists, but there are already artists in your city, and they’re not necessarily gonna penalize you for being new to it recently a lot of people move to new york to be consumers or to be adjacent to the “the scene” for their socials which is borderline malicious while there’s a housing shortage; it’s literally taking someone else’s spot, whether they’re *from* there, or at least there for a *reason*. new york has always had transplants so it’s not becoming to say “no one should move there!” but you just gotta ask yourself what you’re gonna get out of it, if it’s worth the bill you’re gonna foot, whether you’ll really be able to give back in a way that’s commensurate with what you’re getting

@alaiyo

Mar 22, 2024

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You will at the Least gain something from trying

I’m from the midwest, moved to manhattan for college, stayed for a bit after, have recently moved to a few different cities, and have wished to be back living in new york ever since. It’s often talked about like a thrilling dream— it’s obviously not. But what I can say is that I think in many ways living there helped me grow into a person I really understand. I was listening to a podcast recently where this comedian brittany carney said something like living in new york slaps her in the face every day but she likes that about it so she stays. I think that was a pretty accurate way to describe it. It took me a while to feel comfortable living there, but I still remember the moment I realized that it had become my home, and ever since no home I’ve made for myself has felt quite the same.

@Js123123123

Feb 4, 2025

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Basically you post about stuff you like and then tyler comes and virtually daps you up

And then you smile at your phone all day long

@windy

Jan 9, 2024

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pinback

I remember a few weeks back there was some discourse about how good the band Failure is, and I want to use this opportunity to echo a growing appreciation I’ve been seeing for the 00s indie rock band Pinback. i really mess with their album Blue Screen Life (2001), super fun, melodic, bouncy guitar music with post hardcore guitars, sugary vocal harmonies and buzzy synthesizers. While I think you’d obviously be into them if you’re into like Jimmy Eat World or Death Cab, I also would recommend for fans of The Postal Service, Frou Frou, Blonde Redhead, even like Unknown Mortal Orchestra or Stereolab. this some melancholic indie pop/post-emo with electronic elements and creative songwriting yall. If you a Pinback head, sound off in the comments - what is your favorite pinback riff…

@windy

Jan 21, 2024

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Cibo matto - Stereotype A

I loved this band for a while but I started listening to this album after someone from work played Moonchild for me (unreal song). Awesome Shibuya-kei/electronic vibes throughout, but also filled with super nerdy musical references (metal, lounge, 90s hip hop). Yeaaaaah its Kind of like if the Frost Children listened to Stan Getz and Dan the automator instead of Skrillex and Fall Out Boy. And if they were from Japan instead of like probably Minnesota or Connecticut or whatever. Sean Lennon was in the band at this point that's pretty cool. Miho hatori is so goated too I just learned the she was the original voice of Noodle in the Gorillaz. Also this cover is fire, looks like Michel gondry adaptation of I'm blue daboodeedabodie! Fav tracks: spoon, clouds, moonchild For fans of: Cornelius, stereolab, early Bjork, everything but the girl

@windy

Jan 7, 2024