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sometimes life seems hard and exhausting and overwhelming but then suddenly you feel okay because you’re getting ready for a sushi date and you love your outfit. it’s crazy the impact an everything shower and some time giving yourself love will have on you. and hey! sometimes i find so much joy in just getting ready, so much so that getting ready beats the experience of the actual occasion (think of the contrast between getting ready with all your friends for hoco vs the dance itself). anyways i love getting ready so much it’s almost therapeutic to me since it’s like built in alone time
Apr 13, 2024
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Sometimes you just need to go on a city walk , solo date , get dolled up and wear your best outfit , go perfume shopping grab a croissant or a yummy sweet treat it’s my therapy and I always feel happy after and I love to write in my journal about the day or write in my Substack everything I did that day with my community
Dec 22, 2024
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recently, my girlfriend left for a study abroad and most of my ffriends are on holiday break away from NY. therefore, i have just been in this cycle of working and eating and sleeping. these past few days, i've made it my mission to get something done before i leave for work. whether that is taking out the trash or getting a croissant, i just have to have done an activity that requires me to leave my bed before my next shift. who'd-a-thunkit, i actually feel a little bit better every time i do this! i feel like i am making sense of the time that i have and i find great pride in being intentional about my joy. to more days like these, my lovelies
Jan 2, 2025
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Have the pleasure of feeling the sun on your skin while you walk to a mostly empty movie theater. Enjoy the first showing of the horror movie you’ve been wanting to see, all while knowing the children and creatures under your care are safe and sound at their respective daycares. Wander towards home and stop at your local taco place for a peaceful and fresh lunch.
Feel good knowing you are the master of your own destiny, and that you don’t need a luxurious vacation to fill yourself up with love and rest. Revel in the fact that you can choose to spend time on yourself and that it is ultimately worth it; because investing in your own happiness is worth it, and you are worth it.
Jul 5, 2024
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Apr 13, 2024