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My friend and I happened upon this. Meaning, strive to live your life in a way that makes you feel hot. Dress to feel hot. Talk to feel hot. Do whatever you do, but in a way that makes you feel like you're worthy of the love and adoration and crushes and desire you deserve. This does not mean "sexy" necessarily--hotness is always shifting and has many forms. But reach deep inside and you'll find that your own personal method and mode of hotness can always, and most of the time is, an excellent guide.
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When hot people are friendly, it makes the people they’re talking to feel hotter about themselves.
Feb 22, 2024
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Last year my new year's resolution was to get hotter. To this day it is the best resolution I've ever made, because feeling hot forces you to be embodied.
In 2023 I genuinely put time and energy into considering my corporeal form. What cuts of clothing make me feel powerful? What colors? What fabrics do I like to feel on my skin? What hairstyles accentuate my bone structure? What physical activity could I actually sustain and enjoy? How does my body feel energetically when I eat certain foods?
It brought me out of a haze of digital overwhelm; I was no longer an avatar but a living, breathing, sweating, dancing, fucking human. Consider getting hotter today!
Feb 19, 2024
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Sure I’m hot but it doesn’t define me and physicality is ephemeral and fleeting. so much of what we admire in a person and find attractive is actually rooted in confidence, which has a whole host of other enriching benefits to your life beyond your appearance ❤️
Dec 20, 2024
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tough but worth it
Feb 25, 2025
Kind of a genre of medieval paintings, but confirms to me how horny people have always been and how we've always had to sublimate our desires into the dominant culture. It's so weirdly explicit and bizarre, and has so many layers in how it would have been used: a painting to look at, a page in a prayer book to speak as a script, a physical object to touch and venerate and meditate with.... like imagine people fingering this "wound" and being like, yes this is honestly totally about jesus. Crazy.
Aug 2, 2024
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Rearranging your place such that people can come over and comfortably spend a few hours lounging on the floor with you. Mattress pads, cushions, pillows galore. Have a sumptuous spread. beatrice222 originated and executed this idea recently, with much success. Best part is... you get to live a comfortable floor-based existence for as long as you like until you rearrange and clean everything up. Sweep and mop before and after. Happy Floor Week everybody.
Apr 11, 2024