both places mean a lot to me and suck in their respective ways but i am really grateful to have moved here. plus there's a strong nigerian community in south london so i still get to enjoy a very cool liminal hyphenated third place.
leaves you susceptible to dating someone for too long because they play a role rather than it being about who they are. if you go in open to every situation, it will play out as its supposed to naturally (sometimes with a little nudge)
go drink some right now
itβs good for your body and skin and has magical healing properties when consumed at the right times. currently itβs helping me beat a hangover
