When you make a commitment to life, life makes a commitment to you.
Maybe it is a bad choice and you need to adjust again. Oh well, you learn and you grow and now you know!
I’ve made a lot of straight up bad decisions. I’ve made a lot of decisions I thought were good that just weren’t the right fit. I have so many stories and the ones I’m most proud of include my courage. It was all worth it, and I wouldn’t change a thing.
Editing to add: I’ve blown up my life twice and it was hard but also what I NEEDED to do!! Trust in yourself 💗
Jun 19, 2024
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First and foremost, all you need to make is the next decision. Don’t be trying to make a decision for the whole rest of your life, just the next one in front of you.
Then you gotta keep in mind having trust and faith. No matter what decision you make, even if it is the wrong one, that is the right decision for you. Life will adjust to support you based on the decisions you are making. pick a path, trust your gut. Get past the anxiety. Your anxiety is going to cloud your judgment. Get quiet and wait for the water to clear to see what is underneath. I have found that when I am going in the wrong direction there are red flags, roadblocks, things that make it really difficult for me to keep taking that path and cause me to readjust. You just gotta pay attention.
One of my favorite quotes is “when you make a commitment to life, life makes a commitment to you.“ You gotta get the momentum going for anything to even happen. You have to start in a direction to know if it’s the wrong one. Cast your net see what bites.
Oct 22, 2024
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deciding to be very brave…
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make big scary decisions, take spontaneous trips, kiss random people, go on silly dates, get drunk in the city, do new things, close a chapter of ur life to start a new one some place new, do the things you never thought u would, shock the rhythm of ur brain and embrace the new version of yourself you become along the way.
maybe it’ll all go wrong but maybe it’ll all go so so right n you won‘t know until you try so u might as well do it.
perspective gained from a recently shaken life.
Nov 9, 2024
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This has become the norm and every day I grow more disturbed. I understand if somebody is behaving in a harmful way, that is good to document and put out there. But as a whole, it seems, we have become so comfortable with recording people just living their lives. I saw a video of a guy working and the caption of the video was that he was so hot, we needed to find him!!! Why are you providing the Internet with his face and location instead of just going up to talk to him? I saw another of two people on the subway, seemingly a couple, having a very emotional moment. How would you feel if you open up an app and saw a video like that of yourself? I don’t like this level of sibling society surveillance. Why are you videoing an elderly person with sad music dubbed over it to gain likes? It is WEIRD. Don’t even get me started on videos of children. It is WEIRD to use a stranger without their consent to get some kind of fake validation. Get a life.
I don’t mean to come on here and share something so negative, I just don’t have anywhere else to put it and it’s gnawing at me.
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I’m curious what your brains are like
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