it's about c-ptsd, i'm about 70% through it and i'm sobbing. it touches a very tender part of my heart, not just because of personal experiences but bc it's such a valueable piece of work (esp. as a psychology student but) for understanding trauma in general.
I borrowed this from the library and about halfway through! My heart aches. I had to put down the book multiple times to check in with myself. She has given me language for shit I've been struggling with</3
dooly it hits you in the heart for sure but truly is a magnificent piece of work. i'm glad it gave you the language for those struggles and i hope it helps you on your beautiful journey onward:)
I picked up this book on a whim during my last book shop visit and after it reading it, it feels like fate. its a powerful story of surviving grief and trauma unlike any other I’ve come across. as an adult, it can be really difficult to understand why things that happened in your early childhood happened at all. this book really captures all of those complicated feelings.
i read this for the first time when i was 19 and it shaped me so much. every time i’ve revisited it, i get something else out of it. a triumphant exploration of pain both physical and emotional, identity, morality, violence, and tenderness