it‘s all about time, luck, and making a profile that’s treads the line of seductive and off-putting - be hot and put your idiosyncrasies on show in a way that is guaranteed to put some ppl off and draw the right ppl in..this broke the cycle of boring matches and dead convos for me.
when I matched with my now bf he said my hinge reminded him of a tumblr profile <333 he got it
the thing about hinge as well is that basically every single person looking to date in London is on it so it’s just a matter of time
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a fair few people who have ended up becoming some of my best friends from hinge
and a couple really cool people i‘m seeing
has worked really well in every city i’ve lived in, i feel like it’s more queer than other apps? and it promotes actually reading people’s profiles more rather than just going off first photo
but at its core apps are just a way to meet people because day to day has gotten so desocialised esp in london
Jul 20, 2024
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without knowing you at all, i’ll just say i think the key to dating is to just do it however feels right for you and have 0 intention or expectation or anything until you get to know the person/people you’re seeing. hinge has been great for me but can’t fault anyone that doesn’t fuck with apps
people in london have mostly been really cool once they open up in my experience if they weren’t immediately (tbf i’ve basically only been going on dates with queer women or femme presenting nonbinary people since i’ve been here)
Apr 26, 2024
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Idk unfortunately this is the world dating apps can be good bad or meh really it’s just such a mixed bag and access to people you may never organically interact with otherwise which I find actually nice
But hinge is specifically cursed like the required and very limited prompts are horrible every added feature is worst then the last and I truly think the “most compatible” suggestion it gives you is meant to make you reevaluate Every decision that has lead you to that moment
Jul 20, 2024
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It’s funny being alive in the early rubbish days of AI.
Listened to my Wrapped Ai podcast on Spotify and got to experience my artificially-generated bodyless soulless ‘host’ chuckle and say ‘I can just imagine you strutting down the street listening to the BRAT album’
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