Rec | MAKE IT A LESS PLEASANT EXPERIENCE

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Rec'd on 📞 HOW DO I GET OFF MY DAMN PHONE

it’s designed to be additive so don’t blame yourself, it doesn’t help. deleting instagram helped me. sometimes i go on the browser but it’s a less pleasant experience so less addictive. i redownload when i want to post and then delete again. annoying but worth it. my phone is getting old so my battery is going bad. this helps because i’m more inclined to only use my phone when i need it to keep it from dying. resist taking a charger every where you go if your phone is the same. been following this writer/artist/screen time activist (?) and she has some cool thoughts on the matter: https://augustlamm.substack.com/p/you-dont-need-a-smartphone

@i___cloud

Jul 25, 2024

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