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Eavesdropping

truly America’s pastime. I was reading in the park earlier and overheard a girl dishing about a breakup to her friend who was kinda implying she was in the wrong… and she was like “so did I lie? Yes. But I meant it at the time” and then explained to her friend how the NYT connections puzzles work. I only hope people are as thrilled when they listen in on my crazy ass. I love being nosy

@sabina

Mar 17, 2024

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eavesdropping

other people’s business is always so interesting

@joyci

Dec 22, 2023

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Eavesdropping

Im afraid I know way too much about the people who occupy the same spaces as me. Not only is it entertaining but it’s also quite, connecting? I feel like its a good way to practice sympathy. And if the conversation is interesting and not obviously private, you can join in! Although the drama can be very interesting I can’t help myself, please, continue with the story of your shitty Boyfriend! Especially helpful for a writer, I’ve taken immense inspiration from strangers…

@missmisery

6d ago

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Dw

She’s hilarious

@murdonner

Nov 16, 2024

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Don’t fetishise your 20s

I’m on the wrong side of 33 and i can tell you with utmost certainty that your 20s is the most chaotic time of your life and it’s amazing that anyone actually gets anything done during them. If you’re a type a planning type personality however I would recommend: - if you’re the sort of person who cares about diet and fitness, establish those routines in your 20s - live where you wanna live. Don’t live somewhere you hate because you think you’ll have more fun later cos you won’t - get a job that makes reliable money that you can tolerate and go back to if your dreams fall through. It doesn’t have to be a dream job it just has to pay the rent and not make you sad - don't smoke cigarettes - use sunscreen - be as cringe as you want. People expect it from you anyway. They won’t have as much patience in your 30s.

@murdonner

Nov 25, 2024

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party moment

Walking into a formal celebration and taking in everyone looking and smelling good. The smell always stays with me the most—cologne, soap, hair product, cigarettes, leather, shoe polish. Everyone so clean and proud and a little bit shy. So special.

@murdonner

Dec 7, 2024