Old pairs of G.H. Bass Weejuns are around 50 on eBay usually, that’s my go to. Sorta the Chuck Taylor’s of loafers imo, I think they look better a little roughed up. Have heard good things about solovair too if your budget is a bit higher
i’ve done this platonically and romantically recently. and both seem to be working out. i love talking on the phone. we should all talk on the phone more often
i haven’t done this yet, but my dear friend meredith has been testing it out. it’s working for her. i’m always going on and on about how badly i want a pen pal, so i’ll approach someone with this soon and report back