make sure that you're applying to colleges that you're actually interested in not just the same colleges everyone else is applying to - same goes for deciding safety schools make sure you choose ones that you would like going to (eg. based on size/ location/ party schoolness etc) instead of just leaving safety schools as an afterthought don't pay attention to where other people are applying and get in/how many schools they're applying to - some people like to make a big show out of the whole thing but it's really just because they're insecure - don't let it stop you from applying somewhere bc you think won't have a shot - you never know what will happen and people who brag are usually exaggerating their achievements if you feel certain about your major or a few majors that you're interested in, make sure to look at what that major looks like a specific schools - how much flexibility is there is courses? is there a strong focus on one aspect of that subject (eg. cold war history for history majors or clinical experience for biology) - maybe even look at specific professors (which you can talk about in supplementary essays about your interest in that school) the most important thing: no matter what happens, it will all be ok - i have lots of friends who didn't get into their "dream schools" and they all love the college they ended up going to - it's all about what you make out of it good luck! i know firsthand how stressful it is but you'll get through it! ❤️❤️❤️ s
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