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Nye alone (?)
I might be spending it alone in my room this year and i think i'm okay with that? pros: - cosy night in (imagine Jennifer Garner in 13 going on 30 with the face mask and all) + booze - i can get up the next day without a hangover and work on my film - do all the things I really wanna do: visionboard, ins & outs, journaling, ... - dance party, cinema all that at home - don't have to find a way to get home cons: - fomo I guess of other ppl being out and partying / the "experience" - dancing out all night - not kissing someone when the clock hits 0:00 sharing this feels stupid but also, not. like am I the only one? can't be right?
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Dec 30, 2024
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@mango_juice
SSTAY IN!!! i support you!!! you're not alone. my gf birthday is december 31 so we use it as an excuse to do anything we want on NYE, which usually involves getting dinner then staying in and hanging all night and not even making it to midnight lol
Dec 30, 2024
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@handycam_in_hand
mango_juice hhaa i love that!! update i am going to a movie (babygirl) and then in fact going out
Dec 31, 2024
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@mango_juice
handycam_in_hand oh that sounds nice too:) i might see baby girl as well do enjoy!
Dec 31, 2024
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mango_juice thank youu
Dec 31, 2024

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@birdy
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Go CLUBBING alone ⭐️
i tried it for the first time this year and did it more than once 🥹💛 it’s liberating it’s brave it’s fun it’s a confidence booster it’s just u and the music you get to meet and hang with new people without feeling like u have to spend all night with them you enter and you leave whenever you want It’s awesome
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@lupisandlove
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NO SUCH THING AS MISSING OUT
went to a rly fun function last night. 12-6am party to celebrate both a local DJs’ bday and the closing of a beloved venue. Had a lot of fun, but I remember watching the linked Hitomi video where she takes a break amidst a circle of friends, and doesn’t shame her desire to rest while the social world moves around her. I left around 2:30 as planned, didn’t drink at all and just smoked and had a good time. knowing your body and mind takes time: I’m a lover of dance, music and good energy, but in the late lutuel phase of my menstrual cycle imma need more unparalleled quiet time. I grew up feeling soooo much FOMO (side effect of a strict household) but now I’m a functioning, self-loving adult who loves to party and loves to snuggle into her sheets while the party rages on.
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