Rec | DELETE DATING APPS

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Trust me you gonna feel much better, you don’t need random peoples to “pick” you or ”choose” u according to your pics and “interests” you put on your profile. You are more than that trust me it just makes you feel like you are doing something for your “romantic relationships” in the end its just disappointment. Love u all be safe

@gingerlatte

Jan 8, 2025

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@valoorie

Yesterday I deleted all of my apps and accounts. I felt really guilty because I “ghosted“ a handful of people I briefly talked to (if you can even call that ghosting). This really made me feel better and I think I made the right choice.

Jan 8, 2025

@gingerlatte

valoorie wow proud of you! Definetely you made the right choice! You don’t need that weird half ass communication. I believe real and geniune people probably admiring and trying to reach out to you everyday you seem such an interesting person, it takes courage to delete it well done!

Jan 8, 2025

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Like someone else said, one of the best, most freeing things is to leave the dating apps behind especially if you struggle with self esteem. I know people who have found amazing relationships from dating apps, but as a whole I believe they have done a great job at commoditizing romance and making interactions transactional; they want you to pay more money to keep swiping until your thumbs hurt. Combine that with the fact that all the major dating apps are owned by either Match Group or Bumble, data privacy concerns, and you now have an industry that treats dating like a mobile gacha game. Dating felt fun and natural for me the minute I left the apps behind. This is just my 2 cents, so take it with a grain of salt. Maybe they work for you, if so, more power to you!

@wakeuplmd

Jan 21, 2025

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delete all dating apps

obviously everyone has said it already but it’s so freeing to just get rid of them. being a losergirl i wasn’t having much luck anyway so at first i thought nothing would change but i was wrong. i find that i don’t even think about romance or finding a partner much anymore; just focusing on fixing and bettering my life. focusing on strengthening my friendships, my goals and projects i’m working on satisfies me more then any romantic relationship will currently. i have more thoughts but i’m bored of typing now

@psmew

Sep 30, 2024

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Anti rec: downloading a dating app on valentines

I know you feel incredibly single today, same. but don’t even thiiiink about downloading that fuckass app. It’s not worth it, I PROMISE you are doing fine on your own. But, if you do decide to download a wretched dating app anyways, please keep in mind that the one holding a dead fish in their dating profile is probably not going to love you with tenderness and understanding for a lifetime. Don’t settle.

@starlet

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