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i adore too much to loathe. i cherish too much to desecrate. i love to love, so why would i hate?
Jan 17, 2025

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this is super interesting! i think lovers care a lot, sometimes hate can stem from caring a lot. idk i think about this often because i have so much love to give, yet part of me is also easily prone to hating...or maybe i just feel too much ...just my two cents lol
Jan 18, 2025
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macar0ni2 it's definitely a double-edged sword. i totally agree that caring/loving too much can go full circle to the point where you can start hating/become irritated towards others who don't feel the same way or act indifferent about it all. when that does happen, though, that's when i have to remind myself that we all interpret the world differently and to expect someone to feel the exact same way as me will only lead to frustration on my part. loving a lot to me also means being open to hearing people out and trying to understand their perspectives, even if i don't necessarily agree with them. at the end of the day, i can only control my own choices and all i can truly hope for is that in the process of caring a lot about something, there will be other people along the way who share similar sentiments 💛
Jan 18, 2025
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verygoodvalentina this is so well written and I think a part of growing up and maturing is realizing why people say "different isn't always bad" and even in my life now I've been realizing a lot that when you don't understand someone's way of love it doesn't mean they don't love you less or more or at all but just differently and that in itself is very beautiful. it being enough or not is a different story but yes well thought out 💗
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