Rec | DO SOMETHING OUT IF YOUR COMFORT ZONE ON YOUR OWN!

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Rec'd on ⚖️ are we not flirting enough?

do something out if your comfort zone on your own!

I recently went to a yoga society meeting at my university to meet the group and potentially make new friends. I was definitely more awkward than I usually am without my friends. I noticed more people came on their own, and before I knew it this guy struck up a conversation with me, said he recognised me from classes, shook my hand. Next thing I know we were flirting playfully! All it took was a few minutes out of my comfort zone, crazy!

@krwalshe

Jan 23, 2025

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