Drs/medical professionals have seen it allll u donât need to try present a certain image of yourself to avoid judgement. They also donât have moral superiority over you so if they do judge you, so what, itâs no different to some random doing the same. (Also there are plenty who will be more understanding so if itâs poss u could try find another if u donât feel respected)
Also this extends to not avoiding appointments because you havenât listened to their instructions (eg do sleep hygiene, flossing, exercises). They need to know!
You two should be a team with the same goal, so if you have different priorities re your health, or if there are barriers to improving your health, itâs important and valuable to talk it through together.