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Being chalant!!!!
I am so absolutely SICK and TIRED of this whole “nonchalant” thing!!! we were put onto this planet to care and laugh and have fun and talk !!! no one cares about anything anymore and I’m OVER IT!!! bring back caring about things and having interests!!!!!!
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@vadoraa
Jan 29, 2025
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@eatgraeps
same!! i think being chalant and being purposefully kind and vulnerable is not only the only way we can truly learn to accept love for ourselves, but also the best way to counter fascism! caring about things for the win
Jan 30, 2025
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@justheretofillthevoid
Tbh, I think a lot of people are just too burned out, but I agree
Jan 30, 2025
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@vadoraa
justheretofillthevoid hmm i kind of agree with this but the best way to combat burnout is taking a little break and starting back up again doing something you love. although it may be hard to do something you love if you aren't really interested in anything... therefore try new things!!!
Jan 30, 2025
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@SnowBear
I completely agree, you feel so much more free when you start living like this I swear. Every day has opportunities for laughs and connections fr
Jan 30, 2025
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@brucegoose
me and some friends shared these exact thoughts after our younger siblings called us ”too chalant” during game night. glad to see someone agrees
Jan 30, 2025
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@vadoraa
brucegoose it's always the younger siblings hating... i am an older daughter so I totally get the sibling hate... they're just jealous though give them a few years and they will likely be right in your shoes lol
Jan 30, 2025
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@robynmichaels
CAST YOUR SPELLS 🙌🙌✨⭐⭐✨🌟💫💫
Jan 30, 2025
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@weirdatweirdthings
Small talk melts my brain more than authenticity
Jan 30, 2025
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@SnowBear
weirdatweirdthings I love small talk ❤️❤️❤️ yes I did have a good day thank you❤️❤️❤️ how was yours ❤️❤️❤️
Jan 30, 2025
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@claudianextdoor
PREACHHH🙌🏽🙌🏽
Jan 30, 2025
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@redglassheart_
yea, screw being all mysterious haha
Jan 30, 2025
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@m_gamino
YES! A friend and I made it a priority to be more chalant all year!
Jan 30, 2025
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@el_fabian
what if that doesn’t fit in a bloke’s specially curated personal vibe?
Jan 29, 2025
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@vadoraa
el_fabian then i fear that person and I will not click... some people like being cool and mysterious but there is a difference between that and genuinely not caring about anything.
Jan 30, 2025

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Reject nonchalance, embrace caring
I cannot recommend caring enough. They will never take my care for my fellow human away, without care and compassion I become less human and i will never allow that. Care about anything! Pick a topic! Trans rights? Palestine? Immigration rights? Reproductive rights? Climate change? Go for it! Care loudly and passionately. Soon you will start to see that all care is connected, when you care about one thing you care about all! Stay connected and informed. Create and read about the things you care about, talk to your loved ones about it - then they might start to care too. Then the load of caring will be lighter for everyone. I love to care and I will never stop. Be a chalant mf'er with me.
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@bebbingtongoose
Feb 9, 2025
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Being nonchalant - while it seems cool and all - is SO unproductive. All it has done for me is assisted in suppressing things that I need to work through. And who really wants to surround themselves with cool people who just don't care?? What do you talk about if you have (or pretend to have) no passion or interest in the world around you. Idk.
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@herbluvr16
Dec 30, 2024
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being chalant
showing that you care about things you care about is really cool
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@juliannalozada
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@vadoraa
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