Having had the same wedding date for 17 years, it’s only fitting to use a cute pic of us. Also she refuses to get onto this app (“is that your little recs app?”) but I mention her often so I’m trying to build out a sense of mysticism around her, like she’s this baddie of a person that sort of exists. Also this might be old school but I think including her in my pfp sets a clear expectation that I’m married, which lets other people know to not act up (because my wife is small but she will kill you) but it also holds me accountable to be aware of boundary lines as to never come off as the “creepy guy who is making flirty comments with his wife in his pfp,” which my single friends tell me happens ALL THE TIME TO THEM.
Jan 31, 2025
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not to their face just to ur friends but maybe to their face if ur feeling frisky. like the cute bartender at the italian place i’ve spoken to once? that’s my husband.
Aug 17, 2024
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Having a wife is like probably the coolest thing I’ve ever done and will ever do. We are not married but that is my wife. I love when she has a beer and talks to herself. G2g hang out with my wife now.
Mar 14, 2024
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High school sweethearts. Wife more or less made the first move / I asked her out officially / she asked me to prom / I proposed. We have always done a back & forth where it’s never felt like one person was always doing the initiating & the other was always doing the responding — we’ve gone back and forth. It’s nice. And yes, sure, I know the whole “isn’t it weird to meet someone when you’re a teenager and end up marrying them and not experience dating in your 20’s?” — NO IT IS AWESOME AND AMAZING AND I LOVE IT AND HER.
Apr 29, 2024
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florinegrassenhopper riotgrrrl brendanooooo slowdazzle buck_mcgraw and indianjones — we did it. Not only did we successfully meet for drinks, but we also schemed the hostile takeover of this app from tyler tonight.
In all seriousness — weird that an app I downloaded in April would make genuinely want to drive back into Brooklyn during end of day traffic for a happy hour. Great app filled with great people.
Jul 20, 2024
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I feel like there’s a special connectivity on this app that I haven’t felt in a long time, maybe since early 2010’s tumblr. The fact that you can’t promote yourself like IG is wonderful. The fact that there isn’t mass video content like Tik Tok is great. It’s not this monetized / paid sponsorship app. People are here because they want to be a part of something with nothing to gain besides friendship. Seeing the URL -> IRL meetups warms my heart so much (waiting for an NYC or Brooklyn meetup).
Thanks for your participation on this niche little app. I smile reading all the recs and all the comments and all the asks. Hope we’ll all be here for a long time.
Jun 15, 2024
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I think a life rule for me is to surround myself with people who know more / are smarter / are cooler than me and just absorb their aura by listening / observing them. It’s made me the incredibly smart / cool person you all know and love.
I just never thought I’d feel the same way about URL friends. I’m constantly listening to the songs I see posted here, reading the articles, subbing to newsletters, and googling topics that get tossed onto the feed.
It’s nice to know you can become a more rounded person by just absorbing what your mutuals post on here. I’m going to sit on my couch, have a cocktail and digest my lovely feed. Happy Sunday!
Sep 15, 2024