If youāre unabashed by who you truly are, thatās hot.
Feb 1, 2025
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My favorite thing in getting to know new people is finding out the things they enjoy that seem a bit out of character. I think itās comforting and a bit sexy when not everything that they like has to be ācoolā for them to really enjoy it. Being self-assured and knowing your worth is hot.
After all, life is too short to try and shape yourself around a mould that doesnāt truly resonate with you. Just enjoy the things that bring you joy without caring if they are basic or lame to others. you can enjoy the band that everyone hates, enjoy the movies that people think are overrated, and wear the shirt that went out of style 5 years ago.
true authenticity is a rare trait, always has been. Itās like striking gold when you find that inner peace to just be yourself, regardless of how cringy others find it. Find the peace to like what you like without shame.
Feb 20, 2025
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Seems to win people over and feels Truthful to who I am
Mar 28, 2024
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What does this mean? To live based on true feeling - without masking. Itās so odd when you become aware of the distinction between surface level and something more complex. Why not free yourself? Why put on a facade? Become YOU. Fully, whole-y; inside and out. But alas - who are you?
Feb 10, 2024
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I have a very strong desire for control over every aspect of my life and Iāve never been able to roll with things. Lately Iām trying to let go of this so I can participate in my āfriendshipsā, which I have really been neglecting in recent years. Today a friend texted and asked me to go to the farmers market with her. At first I felt scared (lol) and inclined to ignore the message but I decided instead I would agree to go, and within 5 minutes I was in her car with her. It was a total blur and I was anxious out of my mind but I felt very grateful to spend time with someone I love. Iām terrible at conversing but even just to stand beside her was nice. We hugged before parting ways. I am glad that I did this.
Feb 8, 2025
Absolutely the best book Iāve ever read but it took me, if Iām remembering correctly, over a month to get through. Itās so dense with material I had to reread things over and over to get everything being put together. It has an academic vibe, so if thatās not your thing, you probably wouldnāt enjoy. But god, I loved it.
Feb 7, 2025
The other album Iāve been super into the past few days :-D so gorgeous. Iād never heard of this band before and I still havenāt heard their other albums but I feel inclined to listen. They have a really nice sound and the vocalists are both (I think itās just two?) wonderfully talented. Some of the songs make me want to cry some of them make me want to dance
Feb 15, 2025