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It’s about hating yourself the way you should probably hate other people and loving other people the way you should probably love yourself. It’s about Princess Diana doppelgangers and crucified Oasis brothers and the eternal hunt for Colin Farrell. It’s about old bisexuals and digital dating and avoidant Englishmen and unemployed girls with borderline and alcoholism and writing and theater and sex-work-esque relationships. It’s sad and sexy and irreverently funny. GO TO MY INSTAGRAM IN BIO FOR MORE INFO AND LINK TO BUY! THANK YOU!
Feb 7, 2025

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I wrote this book back in 2017-2019, but only recently published it (because unfortunately it is once again relevant). Its a funny but thoughtful satire about the 2016 election, and is available as both an eBook and a paperback at the attached link. More detailed information can be found at my website (in case the title is too concerning/off-putting lol). Also, hello everyone, it has been awhile. Life, ammiriiiite?? Sorry to come back and start hawking my wares right away, but alas, such is existence in 2024.
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