Recs and messages in Convos will “send” and then disappear. So Ill have thought I’ve shared multiple messages and then they’ll all just disappear. Eek!
Feb 11, 2025
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i'm having troubles sending and receiving personal messages from users, as different convos are turnining into a single one, and other users can read my former chats ;(
Jan 28, 2025
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opened up a dm with one of my mutuals to discover there were, like, six messages that they had apparently sent me over the course of what seems like several months (though the messages themselves aren't timestamped so it's hard to know) but i never received any kind of notification and also our conversation isn't listed in the "CONVOS" panel either. not sure what to make of this
Sep 30, 2024
But I had this very strange occurrence happen recently where the top of the thread showed an older message I had received from one person, I attempted to send a message to another person that may or may not have been delivered, and then a third person saw both of those messages when they sent a message to me lmao
Sep 19, 2024
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Prescriptive gender is a prison. Rather than gender being a form of self-expression, gender is treated as a pass/fail test for how well you can conform to cultural expectations.
Since I was young, I remember feeling a great deal of pressure to conform to these expectations around what “men” are meant to be. You like sports, cars, womanizing, aggression, and not having feelings. I felt so distant from this ideal. I was sensitive and shy, and I preferred spending my time being creative in some way
For a long time, I felt like I was failing at “being a man.” In many ways I was! Because I didn’t need to bea man. All I needed to be was myself.
It’s taken me a long time to separate myself from prescriptive gender, sharpening in on which aspects of masculine energy I identify with and which I don’t. I’m not done yet. Maybe I will never fully be. The self continues to evolve over time, and I suspect aspects of my gender will too.
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“We live in a world in which we need to share responsibility. It’s easy to say ‘It’s not my child, not my community, not my world, not my problem.’ Then there are those who see the need and respond. I consider those people my heroes.”
— Fred Rogers
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