I have been on and off playing the guitar for a little while now (maybe a year?). I am just god awful. But I really want to be good. Sometimes I feel like a fraud even holding my guitar. But I have decided that no one said I had to be good. Your hobbies are valid no matter your skill level. <3
Ps. My guitar is pink and has gold sparkles on it and I think that’s fun and cool.
Like, no shit! Why do we expect to be experts in everything we try! Do something you’re curious about and you’ll learn some stuff and learn about yourself and eventually you’ll get better. Or maybe you’ll always be bad. Who cares!
When I was younger I used to see agreeableness as politeness, but now I understand it’s not that simple. I thought I would make friends quicker if they thought we had shared experiences, but if it’s not authentic the friendship isn’t either. Likewise, maybe if I do not relate to something that means I should listen even harder. It’s fun to have different experiences sometimes.
