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There’s this person who I only see at shows and we literally only ever talk about movies.
Last night I asked them point-blank, straight up, “so what else are you passionate about”, only to discover that they’re also an archery instructor.
I would have never guessed.
People are so cool.
Feb 22, 2025
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you may learn something that surprises you
Feb 18, 2024
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asking this when meeting someone new, fun discovery process for both parties!
instead of “so what do you do for work?” or for the collegiates: “what’s your major?” this question serves the choose-your-own-adventure purpose because not everyone is afforded/prefers a stable job or education. it also allows you to get to know someone better, maybe they’re going to tell you about the 200 plants they take care of, or the profound though they’ve been stuck on. or, maybe they will think you’re weird and just tell you what they do for work, which is fine too, because it also answers the question. plus, people get excited when you ask them this. it’s unconventional in those early stages, cool points awarded brethren.
May 17, 2024
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Ask them what they're passionate about and the conversation should just go from there. 🤙
Jan 16, 2025
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My watchlist is pushing 1000, so the thought of revisiting anything fills me with guilt. Conversely, I need to watch the Eno doc 50 more times.
But to pick three, the Before trilogy.
I won’t do that to myself again.
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I recently learned that Sade is *actually* a band. But Sade is also the name of the lead singer, who also appears on all of the album covers. So, I think it’s understandable that some people may be under the impression that Sade (the band) is a solo act.
Yacht rock is smooth.
Sade is smooth.
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