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My favorite quote ever.
I used to be afraid of not having a personality, always ācopyingā the tastes of the people I love. But now Iām proud.
My comfort show is one that I once watched with one of my best friends, my music taste is kinda the same as my other best friend bc I listen to the playlists she makes (damn shes good), my bf makes me love everything he talks about with passion, I love watching movies with all of my friends.
Almost everything I love reminds me of someone, and I know they think about me when theyāre doing something I showed them. It just makes me so happy. However sometimes it makes me kinda sad because it reminds me of people who arenāt in my life anymore, but Iām happy to carry all of them with me always. <3
Of course I have my own taste sometimes, but since I donāt try to be āuniqueā my life is better.
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Iāve been talking to my therapist a lot and finding a lot of healing in reminding myself that Iām growing into someone that little me wouldāve thought was really coolāespecially when it feels hard to like myself
Listening to the same music, loving the same movies, loving to read, changing up my look, loving clothes, loving animals. A lot of these things made me feel weird or nerdy at the time now feel so core to myself. Iām just baby me in a bigger body, we all are āļø
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I love the desert and the mountains enough to endure chapped skin, I love laughing hysterically in a hot spring and asking a woman who her doppleganger is and feeling relieved when she says Nicole Kidman because of course thatās who it was and I couldnāt put my finger on it, I love when my friends love the same places I do and want to come back, I love eating cucumbers for hydration, I love when my friends arenāt sure about brilliant comedy (NATE on Netflix) but then come around the next day and start quoting it, I love making up little stories about fake characters that an AI portrait app turned me into (all suspiciously big breasted), I love philosophizing in the hot tub, I love a good deal at the turn of spring, I love massage beds that are also harps underneath, I love thrift stores in small towns where you can actually get a gigantic bag of incredible clothing including jackets for $100 or less (NYC could never), I love martinis hidden in trees, I love lore of a place thatās handed down from teacher to teacher, and I have come to terms that I love extremely geriatric hobbies
Apr 1, 2024
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by your ask it seems that you had a few share of bad experiences with people with so called niche interests, and though there are assholes everywhere I do recommend having a few friends with very specific interests.
Something I like to keep in mind is that my interests are not fixed, in fact in most cases it's something that it's shared and developed among a community of people. i've introduced my friends to some of their favorite music, and there are tv series I've only watched because my mom suggested to.
I'm not a film buff by far, and I have met a lot of annoying ones, but some of my most beloved friends are really into films, and dedicate a good time of their lives to their hooby. I love listening to them talk, and learn about the effort they go through to watch a specific movie, sometimes they have to test lots of torrents or find a physical copy in most random place in the world. Lucky for me, because of them I don't have to commint the same energy, they share their drives with me, invite me to festivals I had no ideia existed etc. I don't like nor watch everything, but it's so nice when we leave a movie theatre and exchange our different perspectives.
All of this to say that you don't have to prove yourself when it comes to your interests because all knowledge is shared, the world is yours to discover at your own pace with the people you enjoy the most.
Feb 11, 2025
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Well, now Iām trying good coffee great coffee but itās not the same, I still like it tho hehe
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