I love my partner, and doing monogamy has made me learn a lot of things about myself, and I love being able to share so much with him, but Iâve been missing what it felt like to have multiple people I was infatuated with. I feel like I am a lover boy deep beneath it all, and being able to be a lover boy with everyone without worrying about crossing my partners boundaries was a very free feeling. Now, when I harmlessly flirt, I get an immense amount of guilt overthinking if I took it too far.
Finding lovers throughout your life is what makes life worth living. Being romantically involved with someone has a way of changing everything about your life in so many lovely ways. Little gifts, little kisses. Wine drunk, and giggling. Best friends become lovers become friends again.
Feb 28, 2025
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i don't limit love to just a romantic partner. I have a queer platonic life partner (long word for my best friend) whom I love muchly. I have many people I love in different capacities, but no one in particular currently that I share a romantic love with!
I keep my heart open to allowing love to meet us where we're at, to which capacity it evolves to
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Every person brings different qualities out in us and our connections with these people lead us down different paths. These missed connections arenât even necessarily about the person themselves but about the life you could have lived together and the changes they would have brought about in you. It does require a kind of mourning to be able to let go.
Itâs tragic when thereâs someone you feel so compatible with but the circumstances just werenât quite rightâIâve definitely experienced this myselfâbut these connections exist in their context. Everyone we touch canât be our forever love, but they can stay with us forever in our hearts. Love can take so many forms outside of the confines of a traditional relationship. Think of what you shared with them as a gift, rather than dwelling on what could have been.
Jan 26, 2025
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Just cause youâre single doesnât mean your alone. Loving your friends/family/community is just as satisfying as loving a romantic partner and will reduce feralness.
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Maybe this isnât so much a fix for staff, but I feel like the reposting of things has gotten a bit lame. I donât want the âEveryoneâ feed to be the same post 20 times with nothing added, especially when the thing being re-recâd isnât even a real reccomendation in the first place. I like this app because it is different than Instagram and Twitter and tumblr and the like. I feel like people are trying to interact similarly to those other apps here. I feel like we are all drifting back into creating the same social media AGAIN.
My vote would be to remove the feature entirely, but I see how it can be used thoughtfully
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