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going home

always ready to leave

@nrthalia

Dec 16, 2024

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LEAVING when someone says theyll be right back

the perfect time to get out of there

@tyler

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Oct 29, 2023

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leaving a small item behind after staying over at a friend or lover’s house

remembrance comes from leaving pieces of yourself everywhere you go

@ceara

Jan 26, 2024

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NOT MASKING YOUR BAD BEHAVIOR WITH THERAPY TERMINOLOGY

My friend today asked me an amazing question. He said, “Do you think the avoidance thing is specific to our generation or LA specific? Like is someone in Arkansas thinking about anxiety?” Obviously yes someone in Arkansas is thinking of anxiety haha but it made me really think. Our generation is HORRIBLE (me included) at facing shit and taking accountability. It’s all masked underneath this ”therapy talk” shit. Hear me out. Let’s say you have a friend and you’re feeling conflict/tension with them. After a few weeks of them being mean, you confront them about it. They’re passive and not addressing their actions. We would INSTANTLY write them off as “AVOIDANT” versus “A friend who’s hurting me by being shitty even if they don’t intend to.” And yes, that friend is being “avoidant”. But, that’s a simple write off for behavior. Behavior has been so quickly written off to fit into this Therapy Talk. Here’s another example: A girl who really likes someone is attaching to them quickly because she’s excited to get to know them and is having so much fun, she’s moving faster than usually and trying to rush commitment. Society would consider her “Anxiously attached” versus “This girl is really into this person and it’s shifting her choices and actions.“ I think what i’m getting at is, it seems dismissive and avoidant to just simplify these big feelings and actions into these terms when in reality, yes the terms are true. But, we should probably be making space to really talk and express in full detail a persons actions including our own, and get to the bottom of it. The categories can be apart of the larger narrative, but they arent the full reasoning. I hope this made sense lol

@courtnipoe

Nov 27, 2024

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French cinemaaaa

i’m trying to learn french fast (it’s not working hahah) so i’m only watching french films and tv. please send me ur favs <333

@courtnipoe

Nov 24, 2024

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EXISENTIAL COURAGE- EMMY CAN DEURZEN

This woman is 73 years old and her Youtube channel is my new favorite thing. She makes these short 7-10 minute videos about exisential courage and how to have a full life!! I am so inspired by her and her videos are a new support to my depression symptoms. Please take a look! 🤍

@courtnipoe

Dec 29, 2024