I can 100% relate - i’ll desperately want to become friends with people but i’m very introverted with people i dont know and then very chatty later on - people always apparently think i look tired and like i don’t want to talk to anyone when that’s really not the case
one thing that has helped me is literally just telling people that you don’t hate them youre just introverted or not a very high energy person - this doesn’t have to be some big serious declaration - i’ve found that if you bring it up in a light hearted manner it often leads to more open conversations
best of luck!!
3d ago
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fight the instinct to hold back and keep things “light”. your friends are more willing to get real with you than you might think!
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I just start talking to people like we’re already friends 🤷♀️ i often forget to exchange names because of this lol. You can never go wrong with a compliment. Also a fan of “tell me your life story” because I actually want to know and also a lot of people like talking about themselves.
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I made this card for my best friend’s birthday and I’m very proud of it - I drew things that remind me of her like her cats and her fav movie as well as photos of some of my fav memories together - it took so long because there were so many tiny pieces of paper to cut out but I just put on a movie and in the background and had fun crafting which was actually very relaxing
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i am a stickler for being on time and by being on time i mean being 10 minutes early - i find it so disrespectful when people are consistently late because it just shows that they don’t respect my time and i don’t get the excuse that it’s just part of their personality bc if they really cared they would make an effort to change
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