Join or get into doing a “social” form of exercise i.e a rock-climbing gym, MMA gym, yoga classes, running clubs. Just going to Planet Fitness won’t cut it. An environment where you can easily approach others while exercising, and be able to talk like “What bouldering grade are you on?” “I don’t know how to top rope, can you teach me?” Do this and you are guaranteed to get friends.
Going out of your comfort zone and taking risks. If there’s a “sketchy bar” you don’t go to but one of your friends does, ask to go with them. You get a new experience if you like it + if you hate it you don’t have to go there again!
Dress and Smell your best self. This one is subjective and exists on a slippery slope but when I started mixing my own personal flair with nice luxury fashion brands and wearing them out with friends, I noticed I would get way more attention from women (or other guys like me who like style). If you have not already invest in good fragrance/cologne, I suggest D.S DURGA and Malin + Goëtz.
BE NICE I can’t stress this enough.
I can’t begin to explain how many people forget this especially men like me. No bro, don’t go to the bar with the intention of getting in her pants that night, just go and have a fun time and be nice. If an attractive girl (or guy) DOES walk up to you, just talk to them like you would anyone else, and keep the convo engaging. That’s all there is to it.
Use this app. So far on this app, I’ve found only hot and cool people on here, and many are willing to share so much info about themselves like their hobbies, special interests, and advice aka what I am doing right now!
